Student Loan Debt

I recently read a few articles regarding student loan debt. The articles supported arguments for all angles of the issue: Legislation, Creditors and Lenders, Educational Institutions, Parental Guidance and Student Responsibility. I am at a point where I can argue from at least two perspectives. For those of you that can relate to this issue please share your thoughts. Who is the responsible party for student debt? Factor in tuition, books, living expenses, credit card companies, banks, universities. Do you have any solutions or suggestions?

Passion

Passion is that inner spark that ignites the moment you wake up and drives you to fulfill your purpose of living for that day. I have a lot of passions. I am passionate about life, goals and love. Passion is what makes me think I can save the world and I put forth every ounce of energy to fulfill that desire. I am even passionate about the passions of others and do what I can to help others fulfill their passions. I can’t think of a time when I didn’t have a passion. I firmly believe that without a passion you will be an unhappy individual. It saddens me when I meet someone who is passionless and I wonder how he or she goes about life. It is easy to lose or put a passion on the back burner. Sometimes life happens and we have to do what is needed to make a living. It is never too late to rediscover your passions. The sooner, the better!

What's your passion?

The Dash

What’s Your Story?

An email circulated a few years ago referring to the “dash”. The question was: What will your dash say about you? The “dash” represents your life’s journey from birth to death (b.1900-2000). I know this sounds morbid but it is an important and natural process each of us will be confronted with at some point in our lives. I remember attending a funeral on my daughter’s side of the family. I was so amazed by this woman’s life that I strived to be just like her. I had only met her a few times at various family functions and our conversations were casual. However, it was during her funeral service that I learned so much more about her life and what she meant to her children and to her community. I was so amazed at the love her children each had and the level of her community involvement. That is when the “dash” became something significant in my life. From that day forward I strived to be like my daughter’s great-grandmother and so much more. I was inspired by someone else’s “dash” and now, I wonder, how to give the “dash” more significance before the journey ends?

My daughter brought these questions to me last night, as she regretted not knowing her recently deceased grandmother very well. She would have liked one more conversation because she didn’t feel as though she knew enough about her grandmother’s life. Which brings me to my next question, how do we reconcile the generational gaps? The obvious solution is of course, better communication.

I would like to propose that each family begins to document something every year about their family and collect stories from the elders. The wisdom and life experience from our elders can go along way. I would include home remedies, funny stories, sad stories, births, deaths and accomplishments. I don’t believe you have to be famous or come from a world of wealth in order to share your family’s story. Every family and story is unique and deserves to be cherished before the “dash” ends.